Let me be the first to say my piece of advice:
Hopeless romantics, stop while you're ahead!
Because it's only getting worse when you think it's getting better. ANd then you become paranoid. Yes, after the endless cycle of liars and pseudo-lovers, you assume everyone of trying to cheat you out of what little emotion you have left. You just might end up accusing the wrong person, and how are you supposed to justify it?
"Well I was too scared to let myself fall for you, so instead I assumed you were lying to me."
It is a tough break, and we hopeless lovers got dealt a shitty hand.
Hopeless romantics, stop while you're ahead!
Because it's only getting worse when you think it's getting better. ANd then you become paranoid. Yes, after the endless cycle of liars and pseudo-lovers, you assume everyone of trying to cheat you out of what little emotion you have left. You just might end up accusing the wrong person, and how are you supposed to justify it?
"Well I was too scared to let myself fall for you, so instead I assumed you were lying to me."
It is a tough break, and we hopeless lovers got dealt a shitty hand.
After being wounded, broken, jaded, and cynical, I think society expects us to suck it up and put ourselves out there again because dammit, there is a shortage of perfect mates in the world and we are only exacerbating the problem.
Alright, so I've listed the grievances and now you are shouting at me to throw you a solution. How can we, the poor, sappy suckers, dig ourselves out of this tormenting labyrinth?
Well, I mean think about it. What can you do? Stop loving?
Nonsense.
Believe me, robotics is not the way to go. So do we just love then, keeping one carefull measured step away?
Sadly, I would not advise this either. First, I believe that one would wake up on some arbitrary Thursday morning and find that they had unintentionally and inadvertently devoted much more than they had intended. So I rather find this plan of action close to impossible.
Yet ifthis were to work out for you some way or another, I would not advise it still, for love cannot be enjoyed unless you thrust your whole self into it without abandon.
Which, sadly, brings us back to the conundrum where we first began.
So maybe there is no solution to this bittersweet curse of wanting nothing but idealistic romance.
I certainly haven't an answer for you, only lessons learned from many heartbreaks I've had to endure.
Alright, so I've listed the grievances and now you are shouting at me to throw you a solution. How can we, the poor, sappy suckers, dig ourselves out of this tormenting labyrinth?
Well, I mean think about it. What can you do? Stop loving?
Nonsense.
Believe me, robotics is not the way to go. So do we just love then, keeping one carefull measured step away?
Sadly, I would not advise this either. First, I believe that one would wake up on some arbitrary Thursday morning and find that they had unintentionally and inadvertently devoted much more than they had intended. So I rather find this plan of action close to impossible.
Yet ifthis were to work out for you some way or another, I would not advise it still, for love cannot be enjoyed unless you thrust your whole self into it without abandon.
Which, sadly, brings us back to the conundrum where we first began.
So maybe there is no solution to this bittersweet curse of wanting nothing but idealistic romance.
I certainly haven't an answer for you, only lessons learned from many heartbreaks I've had to endure.
Well what about my postion on the idea that there's someone for everyone?
While in my jaded state, I would take one look at this statement and scoff. But perhaps, with brain and heart working together, I might have a different opinion. If there truly is someone out there for everyone, I believe you may only come by it with lots of hard work. Let's face it, people are just too different for fate to do everything alone. You can meet someone with who you're compatible with, but it's going to take a hell of a lot more than serendipity to oversome that argument about who should start compromising what.
And if one isn't so lucky to be matched right away, then they must go through a host of unexplainable heartbreakers before the "right one" is reached. At least that seemed to be the scenario in my case.
While in my jaded state, I would take one look at this statement and scoff. But perhaps, with brain and heart working together, I might have a different opinion. If there truly is someone out there for everyone, I believe you may only come by it with lots of hard work. Let's face it, people are just too different for fate to do everything alone. You can meet someone with who you're compatible with, but it's going to take a hell of a lot more than serendipity to oversome that argument about who should start compromising what.
And if one isn't so lucky to be matched right away, then they must go through a host of unexplainable heartbreakers before the "right one" is reached. At least that seemed to be the scenario in my case.
And sadly, all the liquor and cigarettes and pain killers and cynicism in the world don't ever ease the gnawing infestation of lonliness that all atarted with the godforesaken phrase "I don't love you anymore."
Am I the right person to be giving anyone advice? Probably not. But I learned more from Bukowski, Plath, and Sexton than I did from Romeo and Juliet.
Am I the right person to be giving anyone advice? Probably not. But I learned more from Bukowski, Plath, and Sexton than I did from Romeo and Juliet.
1 comment:
KRYSTON! dud remember the good ole days when we were at xxxanga and thought we were so awesome... good times
so how do you befriend people on blogspot? shiiiit
i miss you! i hope you are doing well. update more, then itll feel like im closer to dentron :):)
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